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Q & A:
Question 1
Q: How would you react if someone you called a best friends for years
turns around and starts starts to ignore you when you reach highschool?
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A: well, actually, that happened to me. but you cant let it control you. of course, as you realize, theyre not a best friend. so try to find new friends that could be better than her/ him. im sure you will, because after i got over my so called best friend i started hanging out with people i never would have before. they are still my best friends today!!! so good luck!!!
Question 2
Q: how do you know a guy really likes you?
A: well sometimes its really hard to tell and i dont really know your story but usually the most common flirting technique is trying to make you laugh. but some are more subtle like asking what the homwork is if your in school or trying to make conversation. a good way to tell if a guy likes you is to be just a hair more forward to him than you already are, but not to much. make it look like your not shy around him at all. then see what he does. if he backs off,sorry, if he tries harder, awesome! hope this helped!
Question 3
Q:well i have a boyfriend & i just got with him. he's super shy. what
can i do to stop him from being shy?
A: Well this actually happened to my friend. and it was really hard for her, but to start off, do you REALLY like him? because alot of times when a guy really likes you he'll make sure he can do everything to please you. so try talking to him! say that you think it would be a lot easier for you if it was more a 2 person relationship, and that you really like him but hes gonna have to try and talk to me a little more. something along the lines of that. just make sure your nice about it! hope this made it easier!!
Question 4
ok this one was asked about 50 times so im just going to summarize it for you:
Q: How do you know your best friend wants to be more than friends?
A: well, its sometimes really mixed signals from a guy if he really likes you. he may ask if you have a boyfriend one minute and tell you to shut up the next. but one thing you can tell is that they will want to sit near you, ask about your personal life or where you are going, and seem more interested in what your doing more than normal. think of it this way: if he seems more interested in you than your best friend girl is, then he wants more.
Question 5
Q: im 14 (15 in may) ive started to like at 24year old man. hes so sweet
& he gets along with my mum great. when im arrond he always talks to me. he
texts me loads. hes got a girlfriend. she hates me she has even hit him because
he danced with me. i really like him. what should i do? hes coming to my house
this friday. i could do with advice by then. thanks x
A: well, this is always hard when you like someone older than you. but since hes got a girlfriend, its even harder. just make sure your options are not totally closed of liking someone more towards your age. im not saying its wrong to like someone older than you, because i do, but do you think it would ever work out honestly? if you say yes, great! you should just continue to be friends with him, and see where the path goes. when he comes over, just try to talk to him a little to find clues if he likes you or not. i hope i helped, and good luck!
Extended answer: based on what you told me, i think it sounds like he likes you. so you should be up front with him! tell him that you think you could possibly be more than friends and see what his reaction is. but dont bring up his girlfriend in it, because thats his buisness, but tell him that you like him. if his reaction is good, try to get a little more deep and say that you have liked him for a while and you think it could work out. good luck!!!
Thanks! Wow well it sounds like he does like you so i would just tell him! say this "I think we could work out and i was wondering if you think the same" or "Well i really like you and i think we have a lot in common'" something like that. im sorry if i didnt get back to you in time for you to go to that pub, but i hope i helped!
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Question 6
Q: i am 18 years old and all i do is think about this 14 year old girl
that i knew for years now and i cant see her because her parents wont let me
should i wait for her to turn 18 or move on tell me please
A: well i think that you should wait for her if you like her. but dont forget, when shes 18, you'll be 22. still, i know couples that are 9 years apart! so i would personally wait for her until she doesnt have to listen to her parents anymore. does she like you back though? if she does, i would absolutley wait for her. nothing should hold you guys back. unless you dont like her enough so your comfortable with moving on, but it doesnt sound like that. so yes, i think you should wait. you sound like you really like her. but for now, try to take her off your mind by seeing other girls. hope this was of use!!!
Well im really glad you care about eachother, it sounds like your relationship will last. definitely wait for her, but see other girls to keep her off your mind. still remain friends with her, and do things together as friends to satisfy yourself for now.
Question 7
Q: I have a boyfriend and I've gotten really close to him. He tells me he
loves me over text message and I say it back to him but I'm not sure those are
my true feelings toward him. Help!
A: Well, this is always hard in a relationship when one loves the other and the other isnt sure. but dont say you love him if you dont. that would just make him think you do and he might want even more. so maybe go on a few more dates, see how he acts, and consider the fact that maybe you do/ don't love him. but, wait a little while, it may be too soon. maybe you will love him when you get even closer. hope it helped!
Question 8
Q: how do i ask a guy out i mean i hang out with alot of guys and i know
how they act and stuff but i get all frozen around my crush..... HELP..!!
A: Actually, I was in the same exact position a few weeks ago and this is my advice: DONT ASK HIM OUT. a guy is generally more able and brave enough to ask a girl out. if he likes you enough, thats what he'll do. and it makes a girl look almost too eager to date when a girl asks a guy out. so just act like you always do, maybe flirt a little, but don't act too desperate, and either he'll take the hint or he'll start to like you anyways. hope this helped!
Question 9
Q: I just broke up with my girlfriend I got to see once! She goes to
school far and comes home after every month, we used to get on good, great
chemistry, long calls etc. Then things just werent the same anymore (the past
3wks) and then she called me and said we should just be friends, cos we had a
few arguements etc. Each time I asked her to come to a movie or summin she
always had an excuse, whether it was her parents or wateva, i dnt knw. I want
her back!!! any tips? (Her close bud is d8in my close bud).
A: well, breakups are always hard. but if she doesnt like you, or has lost interest, there is really nothing to do. is it another guy that is taking her away? But the probably best way to get her back is to almost let her know that you are over her too, but dont be mean. maybe call her and just see how she is doing, dont metion getting back together, almost make her want YOU back, not the other way around. if none of that works, she has probably moved on, and so should you. try to ask out other girls, and let your options open. you never know what other great girls are out there too!!
Question 10
Q: I really like this girl. I don't know if she likes me. We have been
friends since bbefore kindergarten. We are both 13. She is alot better than me
accademicly and about the same athletically. I am alot taller than her, but that
shouldn't matter, right? She comes from a very religious backround, can't say
the same for myself. She is popular and I am well known but not "cool." What
should I do?
A: Since you have been friends since kindergarten, that could either help the cause or hurt it. but try to hint to her that you like her, but nothing obvious. maybe hang out with her more, smile at ther more, make her laugh more, make her like you. dont try to impress her, that could backfire. just be yourself, although im sure you already are, and act comfortable around her; make her comfortable around you. if you hint to her, odds are she'll hint to you.
Question 11
Q: I like this girl in my class and she is my best friend and i want to
go out with her really bad should i?
A: Well if you are friends, go for it! ask her out! unless your sure she woudlnt say yes, i would try it. but, dont listen to the saying 'the worst that could happen is she says no', because thats not true. make sure she is the kind of girl that would take no hard feelings if she didnt like you. still, try asking her out, and see how it goes. hope it helps!
Question 12
Q: Well, you see... there is this kid who was in my elementary school in
5th grade (I'm in 7th grade now), then I didn't really like him, though last
year when our buses stopped at the high school for a shelter-in-place procedure,
we encountered and I noticed a friendship between us. Then earlier this year
around Halloween, we encountered again at our elementary school's funfair. We
talked for a while, then after he left I suddenly wanted to find him and talk to
him again and I did, and I realized I was in love with him. The only problem is
that he goes to a different school than me and I NEVER get to see him. What do I
do? Please respond!
A: Well its sad when you never get to see your crush, and its even worse if you love them. my only advice is to try to see other people so you can keep your mind off them. and if you know your going to see him soon, maybe ask for his phone number to keep in touch.